How To Rebuild Your Relationship If One Of You Cheats
It creeps up on you when you least expect it the desire for something ”different.”You see someone or something that piques your curiosity; you’re aroused and pondering a few sensual thoughts. You tell yourself you’re not going to act on it, but it makes you horny when you think about yourself in that situation or with that person. What starts as something innocent can quickly turn into more.
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1. Purge all hidden dishonesty.
The only way either of you can begin the healing process is by getting honest about everything that you’ve done. You have to sit down with your partner and spill everything don’t hold anything back. Yes, you run the risk of ending your relationship, but it’s a chance you have to take if you want to repair the relationship. You can’t build trust if more revelations come out later.
2. Counsel with a professional.
The best way to re-build your relationship is to counsel with someone who’s trained to help couples in these types of situations. A professional can see what you can’t and help you figure out how to put the pieces back together. Show your partner that you’re willing to do whatever it takes to win them back.
3. Avoid temptation.
Temptation comes in many forms, and it’s too easy to slip. Today, the Internet and social media provide access to pleasure in ways not previously seen and not just talking about porn. Don’t look at things that you know will plant the seeds in your mind. Avoid material or people who will make you want to stray.
3. Be willing to do what they ask.
Your partner is hurting and scared. If they give you another chance, they want to know they can trust you. They might ask you for things like access to your email account or passcode for your phone — give it to them. If you are committed to staying faithful, you should have nothing to hide. Your ”privacy” shouldn’t be an issue because winning back your partner is more important. As long as they don’t ask you to wear an ankle bracelet, be willing to do what it takes to gain back their trust.
6. Accept the truth.
At the end of the day, no matter how hard you work, some relationships won’t be able to be healed. If you cheated, accept responsibility for your actions. If you lose the love of your life because of what you did, that’s life. Take responsibility and learn from your mistakes. Determine to never be in that situation again. An affair doesn’t have to end a relationship if you’re willing to put in the hard work to keep that relationship together. It may be one of the hardest things you ever have to do, but if you love that person with everything that’s in you, it will be worth it.
