Top 10 tips to keep your husband

Stories of infidelity are now becoming common each day. Whilst newly married people might not anticipate their patners engaging in adulterous affairs, the sad reality is that it is happening and most marriages are breaking up at a high rate.

Just a few days ago, news of an alleged affair between Eric Knight and a certain ‘small house’ emerged. Similar stories have been told against people such as Phillip Chiyangwa, Alick Macheso and Stunner among a whole list of others.

There are however certain basic things that may help couples to stay together and keep the wandering eye of men in check.

1 Respect

Men love to be respected and to feel that they are in charge of their marriages. Even the bible exhorts women to submit themselves to their husbands.

2 Communication

It is key to building a lasting relationship with your man. It also allows you to be open to each other thereby eliminating hideous thoughts about each other.

3. Sex

Is very important in marriage. It is like the fuel that powers a union. It is not advisable to punish your husband by refusing to give him his conjugal rights as this might motivate him to look for it elsewhere.

4. Forgiveness

Holding on to past misdeeds is dangerous and men loathe an unforgiving heart. It is wise to let go of some things.

5 Maintanance

It is of paramount importance for women to take care of themselves. A beautiful body, skin,mind and heart is essential in keeping a man close by. No wonder why the late singer Marshall Munhumumwe composed a song encouraging women to invest in looking good even after getting married.

6 First priority

Your husband should always be your number one priority. Even if you have kids, the husband should be treated like the first born. It is not a good idea to neglect your husband and fine us all your attention on the children.

6 Prayer

For the religious ones, prayer is an effective tool through which marriage can be sustained. It yields positive results. Praying together is even more powerful.

7 Spending time together

In this fast paced world couples often find themselves without adequate time to bond with each other. It is highly recommended to find time for each other, go on holiday or do hobbies together.

8. Commitment

Marriage thrives on commitment. Even in the face of hardships, it is important to remain committed to each other.

9 Flirting

This should not only be done during the premarital stage. There is nothing more exciting for a man than to have his wife flirt with him. This ignites passion.

10 Support

They say behind every successful man is a woman. Supporting your husband is important and ensures that he appreciates you even more