Captivating, passionate, opinionated and unapologetically layered, the emotionally complex woman is a mixture of emotions she’s able to express deeply, sincerely and often. This doesn’t mean she’s high drama, loud or running low in self control, it simply means she’s a thinker, and even when quiet, those still waters run deep. While not for every man, she’s downright magnetic to the thinkers and feelers who appreciate witty banter, theoretical conversations, sensitive gestures and thoughtful debates. Here are five reasons why you should date a complex woman.
1. She’s not only interesting, she’s interested. …
And in a hell of a lot more than what kind of car you drive, where you vacation and how much your salary plus bonus equates to. She will want to know why you choose to do what you do with your life, if it makes you happy and what other interests you have aside from it. She’s happy to share information about herself, but she gets joy in hearing what others think and feel and what motivates them. This is how she connects with those around her.
2. She’s no bore.
The emotionally complex woman is alive. Whether she’s sipping champagne, biting into a new cuisine, in a fit of passion in the bedroom or enthusiastically sharing the joys of her day (or reacting to yours), this is a woman who’s big on enjoying each and every experience mind, body and soul.
3. She’s ruled by her passions
Whether she’s going after a goal, fighting for a cause, indulging a hobby or falling in love, she engages her desire with full attention and believes in it down to the bone. Looking for loyalty in excess? This is your gal.
4. She’s sincere to a fault
She may have a great sense of humor, but she’s quite serious about what matters most to her. Her word tops that list. When she says something, she means it and she has a very hard time understanding those who don’t follow suit. In fact, she tends to have zero tolerance for those who break the word-as-thy-bond decree.
5. She’s not into superficial relationships.
While she can have fun and let loose, she prefers to do so around people she knows, trusts and takes a real interest in, the same people she knows take a real interest in her. She doesn’t have the skin for one night stands (the stress of the morning after would put her into a panic) and frivolous dating just for the sake of cocktails and conversation. Yawn.